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13 thinking of getting pregnet.Should I?
My boyfriend’s dad and step mom are getting a divorce and he might have to move far far far away from where we live like far away from Dallas cause his real mom and far away from where I live cause his step mom and far away from Big Spring cause some gang is after my boyfriend. I been dating him for 2years and don’t want him to leave. So I’m thinking of getting pregnet so he has to stay..If I’m pregnet his dad wont let him leave I mean I’m not a virgen lost it like last month with him. But like should I do it? Should I get pregnet??
I really love him.I mean we have a dog (English bulldog) we say shes our daughter and he supports her good he comes ever now and then just to visit the two of us=]] He has a job and everytime he gets money he buys both of us something either food or toys for her and a ring bracelets neckles just alot of jewlery and shoes sometimes shirts and pants..Ohyeah hes 14 years old.
Sweetheart look…playing around with pregnancy is no way to manipulate someone into staying with you. You are far too young to be having children.
I know you wont care about what I’m saying because it isn’t what you want to hear, but you need to let this one go. It is life and because the both of you are so young your decisions are still being made for you by your guardians.
I am sure your boyfriend is a nice guy and really treats you right, however, if you two really love each other and want to be together then maintain a long distance relationship. If he is moving close enough then maybe on weekends you can visit each other by staying over each others house if your parent/guardians will allow it.
Whatever you do DONT get pregnant I can’t tell you enough. You have no idea what it’s like to have a child and raise it. You are thinking this will keep your boyfriend with you. What if it doesn’t work then what? You will still have to take care of it every day…it is NOTHING like taking care of a pet. It can be very rewarding having a child, but only if you put enough love and time into their upbringing. It is not always funa nd games. Most of the time especially in the beginning babies cry ALOT. They get sick, have to be taken to the doctor, fed every 3 – 4 hours, changed, bathed, clothed, played with and cuddled. You will be exhausted…especially if all you want a baby for is to keep a guy around you will begin to resent the child.
You have school and your life to worry about before you can begin giving yours to a new life. Good luck and be strong. This too shall pass.
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