cancelled on 3 days before… overreacting or actually rude?

i was planning to go to the Spring Racing Carnival with my friend and her dad to Stakes Day, which is in two days. I had bought everything – a dress, shoes, bag and fascinator, spending about $700, and booked a hair and nail appointment. yesterday, my friend comes up to me and basically tells me that i’m not going to the races with her anymore…. but she’s still going. she told me some story about how her dad couldn’t buy tickets but it actually didn’t make sense. another friend secretly told me that her father decided that he didn’t want the responsibility. i am REALLY angry about this. i can only return my dress and fascinator, leaving me with shoes and a $300 bag. i was really excited about this event and now i’ve been cancelled on a mere three days before and i cant find anyone else to go with.
do i have a right to be this angry or am i just over reacting???

That was very inconsiderate, write her off.

And consider the $$ lost as a lesson learned.

Be very picky about who you let into your life.

It is better to have a few very good friends than a lot of toxic friends.

I would send her family a bill for it, you actually could take them to small claims and you might win.

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